Sexual fantasies are imagined scenarios that arouse us, and almost all of us (a whopping 95%) have had one. Plus, a lucky 50% of us have one every single day!
We have them most commonly when we're daydreaming, masturbating and when having sex. And the best bit – lots of us are fantasising about the same or very similar things.
Most of us fantasise about things that fall into three main genres: group sex, novelty, and power/control.
Having sexy fantasies enhances our masturbation and sexual experiences and they're a fantastic and healthy tool to rehearse, anticipate or explore future or past experiences.
Whether you're new to the pleasure of anal sex or looking for exciting ways to spice it up, these anal sex positions will give you and your partner the inspiration and guidance you're looking for.
Hand-picked by our resident sexperts, the positions offer an array of sensations and experiences, with options for beginners, intermediates and experienced anal sex fans.
If you're looking for a position for shallow or deep penetration, something nice and easy, or an exciting challenge, you'll find the one that ticks all of the boxes.
So what are you waiting for? Read up, lube up and enjoy your new anal sex adventures.
Consent is an enormous and very important topic, particularly when it comes to sexual consent. Whether you're in a long-term relationship and want to try something new, or it's a first-time encounter, feeling comfortable and safe, and having the capacity to say 'no' at any point in time, is an essential aspect for any healthy sexual relationship.
This week's guest, sex and relationships expert Dr Megan Fleming, joins Sammi and Nick to talk about when you should establish consent (spoiler: it's always), what consent looks like, and how to go about having those unambiguous discussions.
Alongside this conversation (with the help of the famous 'tea' analogy), the team talk about how worldwide lockdowns have affected sexual behaviours, and of course, share little-known sex facts and the answers to your questions.
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Back in 1950s and 1960s, sex on TV was a big no-no. Television censorship was so strict during this era that you couldn't even show married characters sharing a bed, and wives were forbidden from being depicted as pregnant.
What a contrast to the year 2020, where the gloves are off and sex is very much on the cards!
Here are 6 sex positive scenes that spring to mind. What are your faves? Let us know in the comments.
What is the 'A-spot'?
The A-spot is an internal pleasure spot found deep inside the vagina. You can find it right at the end of the vagina (think 4-6 inches back), between the cervix and the bladder.
The A-spot feels spongy to the touch and is quite a lot larger than the g-spot. So much so, some sexperts refer to it as an A-zone.
The beauty of this area is even people who have never orgasmed through penetration can reach the finish line through A-spot stimulation.
Only people born female have this elusive hotspot, so if that's you, why not make the most of it?
If you fancy discovering your A-spot with your partner, positions which allow for deep penetration are the way to go. To get you started, here's 5 A-spot-hitting positions you need to try tonight.
The lowdown on clitoral stimulation
There's a reason why we call it the magic bean. The love button. The pleasure pearl.
The clitoris is the most sensitive female erogenous zone, and most people who have one won't be able to climax during sex unless it gets a little attention.
Since we're all about great sex for both parties involved, we've compiled a little list of the best sex positions for making sure your favourite hooded lady gets all the excitement she needs.