6 Best Sex Toys for Masturbating With a Partner

by Lovehoney

on May 18, 2020

This month is Masturbation May, and as such we are here to put a spring in your step and a smile on both you and your OH's face, with a round-up of six of the best sex toys for masturbating with a partner.

Not only is mutual masturbation a fantastic way to feel good, it can also strengthen your bond with your partner - and that's a fact! Oxytocin - the pleasure hormone released when you climax - is also called the ‘love hormone’ because of its important role in facilitating social bonding between humans.

Playing and climaxing together can also relieve stress, and insomnia, help alleviate pain and even keep you looking younger and living longer. What's not to love? So, make some room in your toy box and prepare to upgrade your shared pleasure play, as we divulge the latest and greatest ways to enjoy together the gift that just keeps on giving...

Lifelike Lover Ultra Realistic Double-Ended Dildo 12 Inch

Lifelike Lover Ultra Realistic Double-Ended Dildo 12 Inch

'Togetherness' is a brilliantly bulbous double-ended dildo at a bargain price. 12 inches of veined shaft and 2 heads will give you and your partner a deliciously deep and satisfying filling, time and time again.

Ideal for:

  • Sharing by 2 people at the same time
  • Fans of larger sex toys
  • Double-penetration play

What they say:

"Most intimate experience ever, both doggy style with half in my ass and half in her pussy... the orgasms were amazing."

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  1. Desire Luxury App Controlled Love Egg Vibrator

Desire Luxury App Controlled Love Egg Vibrator

The Desire app-controlled love egg is velvety-smooth and perfectly formed. Hand over control to your partner or take your pleasure into and revel in 20 incredible patterns and levels of intensity. poised to slip effortlessly into your love life and enhance your intimacy.

Ideal for:

  • First-time love egg users, and a wonderful toy for couples
  • Delicious internal stimulation with a luxurious silicone app-controlled love egg
  • A world of possibilities for shared play with the Lovehoney Free Desire app

What they say:

"Overall, I feel that the app-controlled toy movement will swiftly take over from our faithful remote-controlled toys! No longer will we need to rummage for batteries! Plus, a lock screen is easier to engage than explaining an unknown device to a nosey onlooker!"

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  1. Desire Luxury App Controlled Rechargeable Prostate Vibrator

Desire Luxury App Controlled Love Egg Vibrator

Take control, or put your pleasure in your partner's hands with Desire's app-controlled prostate vibrator. Offering a motor for the P-spot and another for the perineum, this sleek toy lets you discover 8 patterns, each with 12 intensity levels. Enjoy it with your lover in different time zones or side-by-side.

Ideal for:

  • Remote-controlled phone/text sex for couples
  • Blending perineum pleasure with internal gratification from the indented P-spot-massaging bulb
  • A world of possibilities for shared play with the Lovehoney Free Desire app

What they say:

"The real treat is the Desire app which lets you or your partner remotely control each motor in the toy separately via your smartphone. This adds a new level of excitement as you hand over control of the toy to your partner and enjoy the fantastic vibration patterns."

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  1. Lovehoney Delight Extra Silky Water-Based Lubricant 250ml

Lovehoney Delight Extra Silky Water-Based Lubricant 250ml

It's all about the lube! This versatile bottle of bliss is not only a best seller, but now comes now in a larger 250ml bottle for longer lasting slippery fun. Creamy-white in colour, Delight is perfect for you and your OH to explore cum fetishes, creampie fun and ejaculating dildos. Condom-safe and vegan-friendly.

Ideal for:

  • Good for EVERYTHNG! Condom-safe, toy-safe and body-safe
  • Creamy-white formula is perfect for faux-cum play
  • Moisturising & hydrating your skin

What they say:

" Water based formula glides on great. Most of all really impressed that it doesn't leave a sticky residue or stain sheets, which is a great bonus."

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  1. Dominix Deluxe Large Inflatable Wedge, Handcuff and Blindfold Set

Dominix Deluxe Large Inflatable Wedge, Handcuff and Blindfold Set

This kinky couple's wedge and bondage set is sure to ramp up any shared playtime. A bottom-lifting 24 inches high, this velvety wedge elevates your play to give your partner even more exciting views, while the detachable cuffs add a touch of BDSM flair.

Ideal for:

  • Improving view of you or your partner during masturbation
  • Flirting with restraint play, with detachable cuffs suitable for wrists and ankles
  • Sensory deprivation exploration with a velvet-lined blindfold

What they say:

" Great quality wedge, comfy cuffs (that aren't easily escaped from) and a very basic mask. We feel if you have a form of disability or body weakness this will help you sustain positions you would otherwise struggle with."

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  1. Bondage Boutique White Bound to Please Under Mattress Restraint

Bondage Boutique White Bound to Please Under Mattress Restraint

Don't hold back with this quick and easy restraint kit. Simply slip it under the mattress and adjust the straps to the correct length. Put the 4 Velcro-fastening cuffs onto your partner and strap them down, and away you go.

Ideal for:

  • Unclipping one cuff to flip them over or leave them totally immobile and enslaved to your desires
  • Complete restraint of sub's arms and legs and leaves them bound and vulnerable in your power
  • Teasing your partner - they can look but but not touch

What they say:

"The arm and the leg cuffs are soft and comfortable feeling. As someone who is sensitive to materials, this is a real bonus as scratchy materials are a massive turn-off. These are perfect."

Buy it here

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Originally published on May 18, 2020. Updated on Jan 15, 2021
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