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Ever been called a people-pleaser? Do you show love and affection by doing nice things for your special other? If you like ironing your partner’s shirt, making their sandwiches for the work day ahead, cooking up their favorite meal or just simply giving up your time to carry out a visual action you know your partner will appreciate – then it may be that Acts of Service is your love language.

Exactly 30 years ago, author, pastor and marriage counsellor, Gary Chapman, released his New York Times best-seller book “The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate”.

Sharing his personal insights into our relationship behaviours, he identified that there are five different ways in which we give and receive love and affection with our partners. Since, his theories have become vastly recognised across the globe – and one of those concepts is the Acts of Service Love Language.

The idea of a polyamorous relationship isn’t for everyone. The standard social-acceptable route to a long-lasting relationship often ensues a period of dating, before finding the one then settling into a faithfully monogamous relationship.

While this has long been the traditional expected love scenario, times are swiftly changing and as we’ve become more open about our intimate connections, it seems we’re getting more adventurous about poly relationships too.

Add in a physical element to your face-time session and throw away the phones for a much more personal touch. This position tastes as good as it feels and allows both partners to lead and take control of their lover’s pleasure alongside their own.

Delve into the depths of pleasure and set yourself up for a mer-mazing time. This raunchy sex position is perfect for deep G-spot stimulation and will have you both riding the waves of sexual satisfaction together.

Wrap up together for a slow sensual spoon on the sofa. This intimate and steamy position will not only keep you warm but feeling much more satisfied than even a full Christmas roast with all the trimmings.

This position is great for a quickie and can be adapted with the use of a sex swing or a sturdy countertop.