Position of the Week: Wild Swing
on Jul 23, 2025

Swing when you’re winning! Feel like a winner with this majestic airborne oral position that’s super accessible for different ability and strength levels.
How?
To start your Wild Swing, the receiving partner will need to sit in a sex swing, while the gorgeous giver can kneel or sit, ready to pleasure their lover. Do yourself, and your lover, a favour by setting your swing up in advance. They’re usually easy to assemble, but we can think of better ways to get in the mood!
An adjustable bit of kit works great here, letting you adjust the height and angle to suit your bodies, allowing for a relaxed and comfortable experience. We love the Bondage Boutique Deluxe Fetish Spinning Sex Swing as it’s sturdy, versatile and comes with straps & stirrups for varying your play.
Toys for getting in the swing of things
Why?
The Wild Swing lets you hover at a heavenly height for oral pleasure and is super accommodating of reduced strength, stamina, or mobility.
The swing’s design supports the receiver’s body, alleviating pressure on the joints and letting you enjoy the loving for longer – even if you experience fatigue. The foot stirrups are great for resting your feet, taking the pressure off your legs, and helping you stay balanced.
And if you’re the giver, you can sit or kneel between your lover’s legs to pleasure them without neck strain. Then, it’s an easy transition into penetration, if that’s something you’re both interested in.
Make it even easier
Remember how we said you should get set up in advance? It’ll also give you time to adjust the height and angle of your swing. Finding the perfect positioning will help cut down on physical strain while maxxxing out pleasure...
Set your swing up next to a wall or door so you’ve got the option to lean against something at any time. Once you're in the swing, adding a spreader bar makes a big difference. The spreader bar keeps your legs apart, so you’re not straining, giving your lover access without a ton of effort. Looks hot too!
For the giver, there’s always the option of pulling up a chair rather than kneeling or sitting on the ground without support. Make it all part of your roleplay – maybe the giver is a highly respected doctor carrying out a very thorough physical exam?
Make it even better
Once you’re in the swing of things, use the swing’s spinning feature to add extra movement with barely any effort. If you like to be “thrown around,” the swing lets you enjoy things a little rougher (with consent, of course!) regardless of how much strength you or your partner have.
While going down, the giver can add a finger or toy to pleasure the receiver internally, too. Using a high-quality lube gets things oh-so-smooth and slidy, perfect for this adventurous but mega comfy position!
Make it even kinkier
Make your Wild Swing even wilder... add a blindfold to heighten the sense of anticipation and make the experience more thrilling. Blindfolded, the receiver becomes more attuned to every touch, movement, and sensation, amplifying the pleasure.
The giver can tease and control, building suspense and intensifying the erotic charge. Being blindfolded also adds an element of vulnerability, deepening the power dynamic and making the encounter even more exciting and unpredictable. Pair this with the swinging, tilting movements from the swing, trying out different angles and movements to turn your partner on... and on... and on...
Not the position for you?
We're working to make sure that everyone is represented on our website, regardless of who you love, so we'll be using a variety of gender depictions in our Position of the Week posts. This will include straight, gay, lesbian, and gender neutral couples, but all positions will have details in the description of how to make them work for your own relationship dynamic.
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