Lovehoney Beginner's Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 5 Inch Pegging Dildo

This was our first strap-on.

Easy to use and not too intimidating. We started with using a small butt plug to begin with then added some lube to the strap-on. Started slowly but it feels great and soon could get going a bit. This is perfect for us at the moment and would definitely recommend to beginners.

I purchased this for my wife as a surprise as she enjoyed me playing with her bum during foreplay and when we do doggy style. When I showed her the box she was curious and I could tell she was excited to try it out, so we did to my delight.

After the build-up, I slipped it on (which was very easy to put together) and I was happy that it still left enough room for me to slip my cock in her vagina when we do doggy style.

After applying the anal lube that I also purchased (brilliant stuff) I slowly inserted it in and instantly she was having the time of her life. When we moved on to double penetration the experience for both of us was amazing.

Very easy to clean and perfect size for first time anal sex users. It can also stick to the wall in the shower without the strap for solo play. We both would highly recommend this product on our first and every use.

I purchased this product to use with my husband after I had watched pegging in a porn movie. I was increasingly intrigued and, after doing some research into pegging and hearing stories of when women can locate their man's P-spot, I needed to know more. I had to try it.

After bringing up the topic with my husband, naturally he wasn't that interested, but said he would try it as we like to encourage each other to live our best sexual life with each other.

As always, Lovehoney delivered my package, along with lots of other goodies with free next day delivery (we spent over £100) and in plain brown packaging so the postman was none the wiser.

The box that the harness comes in is white and pretty plain. The harness itself is black, with straps that are adjustable to fit what I perceived to be all sizes. I am an average size 12 and had no issues making the harness fit. It had plenty of room and had to be tightened pretty tight. The straps that are left are long and a little annoying after tightening. I have read other reviews had cut theres down to size, but just incase my weight changes in the future I opted to leave them. They did not get in the way at all.

The dildo that comes with the harness couldn't be any less 'real' looking if it tried. This was good. There would be no way my husband would let me put something like the 'lifelike lover' up his bum. That's a straight no. So this sleek little slender black tubey-looking thing was perfect. It was in no way scary in the look or size and perfect for beginners. I can imagine if you are into anal play already maybe you might want something with a little more girth, but for us it was perfect.

The harness comes with 3 interchangeable O-rings, which is perfect to be able to change the size of the dildo being used. We opted to remove the middle sized O-ring and swap it out for the smaller sized O-ring in order to keep the strap on in place with a tighter, more secure fit. This worked perfectly and it stayed in place during our first pegging session.

The strap-on has a place for a bullet vibrator, but after reading reviews stating it did not stay in place I decided not to bother using this function. You would have to purchase your own bullet, though, as it does not come with it.

Coupled with a lot of nervous giggles from my husband, who was still really unsure about doing this, lots of kissing, touching and communication eased him into position (we chose to adopt the doggy position - the role reversal was so strange... getting to see what he would see when he looks at me in a kind of way!) - and teamed up with Lovehoney's anal lubricant (another review from me on that), the strap-on slid in nicely.

We are used to dabbling with playing a little in his bum area, the odd finger or very small butt plug when having a blowjob, but nothing too major. The strap-on had no issues working its magic, sliding in and out with ease. It really was the perfect fit. After going slow for a minute or two and kissing his back he soon relaxed and I went a little faster and deeper. Nothing like he would be with me though - I was still very aware this was new to him. He was able to cum from this without even touching his penis! Who knew!

From a wives perspective, it was amazing to see my husband so vulnerable to me. He is usually the 'man of the house', so to see this, it was a real turn-on.

From his perspective, he said although he enjoyed it he wouldn't be in a hurry to do it again. He said that it felt nice but really weird, and yes he did cum but it was more the fact of doing something like this with me and the intimacy of it all. He confirmed he did not find that 'euphoric P-spot state' that we had read about when doing this and much prefers it when he is having a blowjob and a cheeky finger!

I am not sure what I expected from this product, but it absolutely met all expectations with regards to build, quality and delivery.

I'm sure it's something we might use again, but for now I think we are just happy to know we have given it a try!

I would absolutely recommend this product to anyone curious about pegging or someone simply wanting to give it a go.