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Generally, foreplay is known as ‘sexual activity during the lead up to sex’ or ‘things that get you in the mood’.

But what is sex and why doesn’t it include the lead up?

When does foreplay end and sex begin?

Foreplay can mean lots of different things to different people, so I’ll be covering what falls into the ‘generic foreplay’ category, how creating different categories of sexual acts can be damaging, my own definition of foreplay and when I think it should happen (hint – it’s not always before!).

Often, when the term 'foreplay' gets thrown around, it's sold as ‘something that comes before "actual" sex’ (i.e. a penis penetrating a vagina – thanks heteronormative school sex-ed). So for a long time, I assumed it to be kissing, cuddling and hands/mouth on genitals.

I know this experience isn't uncommon, and I know that to a lot of people, that's what foreplay is.

A lot of people want to know which is the quietest vibrator, and it's easy to understand why.

Now obviously at Lovehoney we believe that masturbating is a happy, healthy act that should have no shame attached to it, but that doesn't mean that you should be forced to announce it to the street every time you have fumble!

For those who like to keep play quiet, we've unboxed this awesome Super Silencer Sex Toy kit, that's filled with 3 brilliant vibrators, who each promise to be quieter than a mouse.

You, on the other hand, may not be.

Watch the video above, and read more about the Super Silencer kit, below.

One of the most common questions we get asked at Lovehoney is: "how can I spice up my sex life"?

Well, there are a bunch of ways, but it just so happens that one of the best ways is probably sitting in your palm right now: use your phone!

And no, we're not suggesting you utilise the vibrate function on your phone for "other" uses: we're talking sexting, people!

Ever tried it? Always wanted to but not sure how?

This week, we invited a sexting expert (yep - that's a thing) to come and teach us everything she knows.

Check out the video above, and read the interview below, to learn about Eva and the benefits of sexting.

The BDSM community are a group who practise Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism.

If you’re interested in aspects of BDSM and you’re ready to further explore your sexuality – that’s great!

If you have a partner or partners who want to go on this journey with you, then there are exciting times ahead. However, it can be hard to know where to start if you’re single.

Here’s some advice for those of you who are sexy, single and ready to discover the world of BDSM.

Do you want a tighter va-jay-jay and easier, stronger orgasms?

Achieve it all with jiggle balls!

In this week's vlog, Jess and Sammi explain how kegel balls work, and why you need to start exercising your pelvic floor for amazing sex and vaginal health.

Got a question? Comment below!

People with penises: rejoice!

The Male Pleasure Sex Toy Kit is packed with 7 sensational toys to upgrade knuckle shuffles in a snap.

Not sure if it's for you? Jess and Sammi give you a sneak peak in this weeks video, as they unbox the whole kit.

Got questions? Comment below, or over on YouTube.

Every time I come out as pansexual I have received comments like ‘Pfft, that’s not a real thing’, ‘So… you’re bi?’, ‘PANsexual?! Do you like pots too?’ or ‘What, you’re hot for Peter Pan?’.

Trust me, I’ve heard it all.

Even though I did have a huge crush on Jeremy Sumpter as a child and a non-stick frying pan does make my heart flutter, these remarks make me eye-roll so hard that in the moment, I choose to label myself as bisexual instead.

After talking to some other pan-pals, I know my experience is pretty common.

So, I’m here to shine a light on pansexuality, we’ll explore its definition, how it compares to other sexualities and I’ll give a bit of an insight to what it means for me to be pansexual.

A lot of people tell us that one of the reasons they've never used a sex toy is because they think they're expensive.

Well, we are very happy to tell those people that they are wrong!

While some sex toys are more expensive than others, there are a huge variety that'll cost you less than a glass of wine, or a take-away pizza.

So whether you're saving for a holiday, or just want to keep costs low while you try something new, you can jazz up your sex life without breaking the (wank) bank.